This is what I wish for you, for each of us – peace, after the storms we have been through – a happy relationship. Here’s what a healthy and happy relationship could look like:

You each will grow and become. Whatever story that turns into is the honest story that makes both of you more fully yourselves and more fully understanding of your larger purposes. This is a lovely, kind, and very human understanding of complexity, of yourself and of him.

Doing this, may you find that life delivers happiness beyond what you ever thought possible.
Wild Nights–Wild Nights!

Were I with thee
Wild Nights should be
Our luxury!

Futile–the Winds–
To a Heart in port–
Done with the Compass–
Done with the Chart!
Rowing in Eden

Ah, the Sea!
Might I but moor–Tonight–
In Thee!

—-Emily Dickinson